Dear Son & daugther....
The day that you see me old & I am already not,
have patience and try to understand me.....
If I get dirty when eating...If I cannot dress...have patience.
Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you.
If when I speak to you. I repeat the same things thousand and one times...don not interrupt me...listen to me.
When you are small,I had read it to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep...
When I do not want to have a shower , neither shame me nor scold me....
Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses that I invented,in order that you wanted to bath.
When you see my ignorance on new technologies...give me the necessary time and not look at me with your mocking smile...
I taught you how to do so many things...to eat good,to dress well...to confront life.
When some moment I lose the memory or the thread of our conversation...let me have the necessary time to remember...
And If I cannot do it , do not become nervous...as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me .
If I ever do not want to eat,do not force me.
I know well when I eed to and when not.
When my tired legs do not allow me walk....give me your hand...the same way I did when you gave your first steps.
And when someday i say to you that I do not want to live anymore....that i want to die...do not angry...someday you will understand....
Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived.
Someday you will discover that,despite my misake ,I always wanted the best thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way for you...
You must not feel sad , angry or impotent for seeing me near you.You must be next to me and to help me as I did it when you started living.
Help me to walk..help me to end my way with love and patience.
I will pay you by a smile and the immense love
I have had always for you.
I Love You My Daughter and Son...
Your Father.
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your dad is brave when he 1st know that he is gonna do something like a kids later.
ReplyDeletehe wrote this to you and it just an answer is that he loves you guys alot and he doesnt want you guys to leave him aside and unpatient for him.